I really must apologize. An update has been overdue for so long, yet I kept putting it off because, well, I got a social life! I haven’t been the happiest here in the past few months, what with all the disappointing attempts at befriending people, being lonely, travelling alone, etc. But everything’s turned around in the past two weeks, in an amazing 180. I discovered the Milano group on the Couchsurfing website. Turns out that there’s a highly active group of young people who get together regularly for aperitivi, picnics, movies, and other events. It’s changing my whole experience here.
I realized I had nothing to lose anymore, so two weeks ago, I RSVP’ed to an event posted on the CS forum and then trudged out into the rain for this lecture event on environmental sustainability and community activism. It was sufficiently awkward at first– I had some guy’s number who had said he’d be there, but then later cancelled. I had no idea how I’d find the CS people I came here to see! Eventually though, while I was working the crowd, striking up conversation with random people, a guy smiled at me, came over and said “Hi, you’re on CS, aren’t you? Dini?” How fantastic! It turns out that this guy, we’ll call him “Lor,” is actually one of the most active members on CS. He hosts guests quite a lot, and is one of your liberal, community-activist, save-the-hippies type, with a humanities background. He has got an inner calmness and maturity about him and I felt immediately comfortable. He and his girlfriend (also a CS member– I have yet to ask them if they met on CS) made sure I was understanding the lecture in Italian and introduced me to some others in the group as well. Overall, a wonderful event with some beautiful food. Check this out:
So, since then, I have met up a number of times with the local CS community. I went out to the big outdoor May Day Festival (essentially a drunken rave– your blogger abstained) and we all drank, ate and danced. Allow me to show you the scene:
I had a great time, and let me just say that the CS guys– every single one I have ever met– are complete gentlemen. They are incredibly trustworthy, such as when at this MayDay parade, some sketchy dude started dancing with me, at least two CSers positioned themselves to help me if anything went wrong. (And ha, eventually something DID go wrong with this guy a few days later, wish they were around THEN. This is a story for another blogpost. Or not. Ever.)
MayDay went really well, and the next day Lor invited me and other CSers to a picnic and a day around Milan with some girls he was hosting from Holland/Canada. When I got to the park to meet them, Lor told me they’d met some Taiwanese picnickers and they’d fused together their food and groups. Although as a vegetarian, I tend to not trust Asian food. I stuck to my mushroom spaghetti and Bellini (a great concept involving sparkling white wine and peach juice, but poorly executed by this particular brand):


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I liked Lor’s guests a lot, and offered to hold on to one of the girls’ Nalgene bottle when they decided they wanted to go to a soccer game (stadium security would confiscate it because people go crazy at games and attack each other and the soccer players). We agreed that we’d meet up the next day to exchange the water bottle, and to hang out. This we did, they were lovely and intelligent girls and thus ended a wonderful weekend. (Also, found a cute red dress at a church sale for 3 euro. You should have seen the old church ladies all a-flutter as they helped me try it on. Like I was Cinderella, or something.)
Last Tuesday, I also went to the weekly CS aperitivo, which was a gathering of about 20 to 25 people. In fact, I met a girl who is from DC! So we talked about how I hate Fort Totten. I met a lot of people here and enjoyed it. I’ll be there again tonight.
I see this post is getting dreadfully long. Let’s give it a few hours before continuing, eh? I want to tell you all about this past weekend in Modena and Franciacorta. I think I have finally reached a turning point in my Italian fluency, which is a very, very exciting thing.
Peace.

Check this thing out. Today was just a gelato kind of day. Weather was fantastic, pleasantly warm. Everyone was chilling this fine Saturday with their gelatos in hand. I got mine after a few hours of walking around “off the beaten path.” Going off the beaten path, by the way, was an epic fail. More in a second. The flavor? Tiramisu. I love when they wedge in those personalized wafers into the gelato. It’s cute, as if they are handing out little edible business cards. It also proves the gelateria takes their business seriously. Just think, if this blog saw more traffic, this picture would be a free ad for this little gelateria.
Oh hm, what have we here? A half hour had not passed before your blogger bought this little sampling of pastries, FOR THE CULTURAL ENLIGHTENMENT. After all, these things are specialite di Verona. The two seashell-like pastries at the bottom of the photo are i baci di Giulietta and i sospiri di Romeo. The Giulietta is made from almonds and vanilla, I believe. The Romeo is made of chocolate and hazelnuts. You can’t really see it in this shot, but there’s a little layer of cream sandwiched in. That, in a nutshell (pun?), is love. The pastry up top is called amaretto, and it’s made out of almonds. This is also a specialty of Verona, so I went for it.


After hitting up Juliet’s place, I decided to check out Romeo’s digs too. I got lost and asked a little old lady for some help.”Vous parlez Francais?” she asked, after I failed to understand all her Italian. I’m an intermediate speaker, and I told her so. BOY HOWDY, did I feel fancy, just cold switching Romance languages like that. And all the while, no English. She was plenty nice and we got to talking and she actually ended up walking with me for a good half hour or more, showing me all the historical churches I’d missed. She said she’d moved to Italy with her family way back during World War II, to avoid the Nazis. She said that the Nazis came in the middle of the night to invade Verona (I think, I think. My French may be a little off.) and she also showed me where she remembers seeing the Americans saving everybody and kicking out the Nazis. She was such a sweet little old lady! We walked out to this bridge, which was obviously gorgeous. Here’s a view. Then she went home, to Via Pigna 6.
What tipped my decision to eat here was that at the bottom of their menu, they had written in Italian “We cook with love.” That just touched my soul. But also when I walked in, the waitstaff was just so genuinely friendly. With absolute certainty, I can say that no one has looked so happy to see me during my entire stay in Italy.


























